"But--it's not--" Ivannya sighed deeply, and rephrased herself. "Okay, you can disagree with us on how you view yourself, whether you think you're pretty or not. But we do see you as pretty, and cute, and beautiful, and desirable, and when you behave like we're going to vomit by looking at you it's like you don't think we can think nice things of you--it's like you think all your low self-esteem is right and our opinions are always wrong if they're nicer."